“Why is it that hate comes out so easily, yet...love? It gets trapped inside.”

I hate you Sulekha…..  I posted a blog with this title few days back but deleted it later on. I posted this blog as a symbolic expression to let my friends realize that they are criticizing Sulekha for non issues. However people could not understand my intention and believed that I have also joined the fray   to criticize Sulekha. Those who know me closely are aware of the fact I can never hate Sulekha. I love it like my family. So I feel very upset whenever I see my friends criticizing Sulekha  on petty issues. But as you see, it has become a fashion to criticize Sulekha.

Earlier it was reward points. Then ranking system, feature blogs, then  top  bloggers, now noted bloggers and active bloggers. I have been to may sites before joining Sulekha. Who knew Yash Chhabra, even my next door neighbor may not know about me, however in virtual world people know me all over India.  Thanks to Sulekha, I have got wonderful friends.

 Sulekha has given us a platform to express our ideas. And we have to pay nothing. Team Sulekha provides us all the facilities to explore our talent. We should be thankful to them for all their efforts. Yes, lapse may be there, but who is perfect, are we?

We may have regrets and reservations too. But there are ways to express our regrets. We may send notes to them. And I have ever found them quick and positive in their response to my notes. But  it seems, few of my friends, don’t like to send notes, they love to criticize Sulekha  in their blogs. This is unfortunate. And see the greatness of Sulekha Team, they never delete such blogs and even show them in most viewed and most commented section. Which site will provide such a liberty to  its bloggers ?

A young boy joined our company 5 years back. He is ever criticizing our company. He would ever say ..bakwas company hai..Once I asked him if he doesn’t like this company, why he doesn’t leave it and join some other company? He has no answer to my question but till date, he is ever criticizing our company for non issues.

I feel If Sulekha put shutters down for a week; we will find our self like  fishes out of water. I have experienced it on other site. It is also a wonderful site like Sulekha. Its owner who was a great poet and friend of mine died at young age. His family closed the site temporarily to get settled down. During those two months, I have received hundreds of emails from my friends all over the world expressing their uneasiness due to absence of our site. We were just restless moving here and there to find a platform to share their poems to kill the time as we were assured that site will reopen. I think most of us are addicted to Sulekha same way.

Any way they joined various sites and I luckily joined Sulekha during that period. Honestly speaking, I also joined here to kill the time. When that site reopened after two months, there were jubilations. All of them came back to that site. I too rejoined there, however I stayed here too as I found this site equally wonderful. I told you about this site only to let you realize, how painful it is to remain without the site which you love like your family.

It is a family site for me; I love it more than any   thing. I love you all like my family members even those who have been criticizing this family. I feel we should realize the value of what we have and appreciate it.

Most of the members are mature enough and sincere too. I wonder what lead them to go to such extent. We are here not merely for fun; we have some social responsibilities too. We have to give back to society whatever we can give. One thing which costs nothing, we can give easily, that is love. Let us spread love and cheers around the corridor of Sulekha and make it a more healthy and happy family